Maze a day 151

Maze a day 151

"The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them." Ernest Hemingway


Maze 151: How do you learn to regain trust in a person who has lost your trust?  I have lost trust for a person close to me and I want and need to believe in them and their word but don’t know that I can.  I realize in this situation that trusting someone is not really something that you can control and must happen from the other persons actions. 


~ by mazemangriot on November 19, 2011.

7 Responses to “Maze a day 151”

  1. Maybe invite them to coffee or lunch; something simple/small. If they can’t show up for that then who’s to say they’ll “show up” for you later, right?

  2. Hi
    Been there .. and I fully understand what you mean and how you feel.. it is hard .. a trust is not something we can switch on and off .. it will take time but you will need to give yourself a chance too ..
    wish you all the best

  3. By the time someone looses your trust, it is the straw that breaks the camels back. Even if it is the first time you are aware of something, you often have an “aha” Moment and you realize it is not the first time. If it is truly the first time, then you need to forgive, and let them know that you will not be there in the future if it happens again. It sounds like it was something important, by someone important. You are certainly having your share of challenges, which means God thinks you are one strong dude, and that you can handle it.

    “Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me”


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